Confused About A Relationship

Confused About A Relationship


I love this boy. We have been best friends for around 8 months, and we have been together for a little while. Recently, he texted me and told me that we needed to take a break. Hurt, and angry, I blew things way out of proportion and totally wrecked things. We talked about it, and he said not to move on because he can see us together in the future and loves me. I’m so confused, and I just don’t know what to do. I love him with all my heart, and we talked about our future and everything. Please help!


It is completely understandable that you would feel confused about your current relationship.

You can try having a conversation with him. Be honest in the conversation about how you feel, your expectations, and where you see the both of you going in the relationship. His response should be helpful in determining what you should do.

You can try to find out why he needs a break. If he still wants to be with you, he will be truthful about what’s going on.

Even if he did not want to be with you in a relationship, all is not lost. People come and go in our lives. People get into various relationships. What’s important is you learn about yourself and know what to do better the next time around.


Why do you think he needed a break at that time?

How could you move on if in fact he does need a break?

What kind of changes do you think need to be made in the relationship for it to continue?

What do you think your boyfriend really wants to do about the relationship?