Help, my best friend is in love with my ex-boyfriend, but I want him back…!!!!!!
CONSIDER THIS:
- Deep emotions can get in the way when two friends care for the same person. You are being responsible by seeking help where many others would rush.
- Often it’s better not to let boyfriend issues get in the way of a good friendship.
- Question whether your ex-boyfriend is trying to create jealousy. People can be immature and sometimes enjoy the attention of making others fight over them. You never know what another person is thinking.
- Participating in a heated emotional situation isn’t good for you or anyone else. Try to consider the feelings of your friend and your ex and make relationship decisions responsibly.
- Do the right thing. If your best friend is your real friend then your relationship with her should come first. If you feel that your ex-boyfriend is more important, you may want to consider your friendship. Don’t risk losing a good friend because they are hard to find.
- Consider talking to your friend- maybe she will understand how you feel about him. You may be able to keep your best friend and get your ex-boyfriend back by talking it over with her.
- If your ex-boyfriend doesn’t come back to you, then maybe it wasn’t the right fit for him or for you. Find someone who truly loves and respects you, and sees your worth.
HELP YOURSELF:
- Have you considered how this may hurt the friendship you have between you and your best friend?
- Is a boy more important than your best friend?
- Have you thought about your best friend’s feelings and how you could honestly approach her about your own?
