I’m 18 years old and nearly my whole life I’ve had issues with my own mother. She says hurtful words to me nearly every other day and is a hypocrite. If I try to stand up for myself, I will get my phone taken. But this time, I don’t want to allow her to speak to me poorly, I want to protect myself and my feelings and stand up for myself.
Thank you for reaching out. It takes a lot for someone to say they need help. Maybe your mother sees things differently than you do Remember your mother has different life experience that shaped her point of view. Like you she might have her own struggles.
- First have that conversation with your mom, if that doesn’t work seek advice from a counselor. We also would love to direct you to our post on Is it a Right or is it a Privilege? – TeenCentral
- Second take a deep breath and try a different approach when speaking with her. You might benefit from our Tool here: 016_0028W_TCFairFight.pdf
- Lastly, here is something to keep your mind busy and help you through the difficult times: Make Your Own Stress Ball – TeenCentral
- Here are some helpful links and numbers that might help you on your journey.
If you are ever so scared you don’t know what to do, consider reaching out to the Crisis Textline. Counselors are available 24/7 by texting the word HOME to 741741. You can also visit their website at www.crisistextline.org.
Another great resource is the National Suicide Hotline. Counselors are also available 24/7 DIAL or TEXT 988 or CHAT at 988lifeline.org. from your phone or by visiting their website at www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.
