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SA story from me

By September 2, 2022No Comments

SA story from me
So starting at the young age of 9 I was sexually assaulted by a girl I looked up too. Me (9 year old female) her (was 15). I was young so at the time I didn’t know much and she would threaten to hurt me if I told anyone so I pretty much kept to myself. At the time I was living with my ex stepmom (30 y/o female). At one point I tried to tell mom but the other girl had ended up stopping me and tried to choke me to death so I couldn’t tell she got in trouble for choking me and I got taken home mom just simply blamed the girl for choking me on her “issues”. This continued on up till I was 15 I spoke up to mom and she told me it was my fault and that it was mutual, even though I told her the most recent assault was a week ago and I was 15 the girl was 22. I finally made the choice to live with my dad. Mom was mad because she always had something against my dad but I was of age and could chose who to live with and since “mom” wasn’t my real mom she couldn’t stop me. The girl went to jail but got released on bail after just 4 hours in a cell even though I had to live for 6 years in silence about what I was going through (I was also taking care of my 3 year old brother day and night before and after school). It took a year to finally learn to cope and little with my trauma and then I was SA’d again at the age of 15 by a 17 y/o male who has yet to receive punishment. It makes life 100% harder and little things trigger my trauma like a shirt, jacket, or necklace being to tight on my neck. I’m still learning how to cope and I have nights I cry myself to sleep due to overthinking.


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  • If you struggle to talk about what has happened and your feelings about it, there are other ways that you can express yourself. Journaling, art, and even writing a story about the situation are great ways to tell your story. We have a lot of information and guides about these skills under our Tools tab.  Also, you can look in to our WHAT’S NEW section for information about the Art Journaling as a Coping Skill for Stress, and Journaling to Cope with Stress. Finding balance within yourself helps to calm and ease the mind for more clear thoughts and action planning. Consider deep breathing, meditation, mindfulness, being around animals, going for walks, or even yoga and exercise.
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